Devotionals

Facing Trials (Part 1) - "Why Me?"

Our Need

"Why me? Why now? Will it ever end?" When
faced with trials we often ask these questions.
We become frustrated, disappointed, and
discouraged. Yet the most important question
we can ask is, "What are God's purposes
for this trial?" This is because God often
uses trials to accomplish His purposes in
our lives.

God's Principle

The first thing to know when facing a trial
is that it should be expected. Peter states:

"Do not be surprised at the painful trial
you are suffering, as though something strange
were happening to you" (1 Peter 4:12).

All marriages will face trials. God allows
trials to enter our lives so that we will
grow closer in oneness to each other, develop
a dependence on Him, as well as strengthening
our faith in Him. Trials potentially can
change husbands and wives for the better.
When couples facing trials fix their eyes
on God, they begin to see His faithfulness
and His Word takes on new meaning. 

Our Response

In light of God's desire to use trials to
help us grow in oneness with each other
and with Him, prayerfully answer the following
questions:

1.  Should you be surprised when facing
a trial? What trial are you and your spouse
going through right now? 
   
2.  Are you using this trial as an opportunity
to grow together in oneness with each other
and with God? If not, prayerfully commit
your trial to God and ask the Holy Spirit
to help you gain God's perspective in this
situation.